After reading Develop Your Authority: Master Yourself. Lead Your Life; simply put, this book precisely guides the reader to their own essential solutions, while leading and mastering oneself. I am fortunate to have found this practical, yet deeply insightful, wisdom. Like fine wine, this book becomes better as it ferments in the psyche within.Â
~ G. LaFontaine
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STAGE 1Â
Stabilization & Safety
The initial step in developing authority is to create individual and relational stability and safety. This includes emotional regulation, thought management, setting realistic goals, and crafting an action plan. Uncovering strengths is vital for reclaiming energy and improving interpersonal skills to cope with painful memories and reactions.
 STAGE 2
Remembering & Mourning
 The second phase of developing authority allows individuals to confront painful memories once they feel safe and secure. The goal is to redefine how painful memories influence life decisions and reshapes self-perception and perception of others. Grieving the loss of lost possibilities can be as healing as reimagining new ones.
STAGE 3
Reconnection & Meaning
The third stage of developing authority focuses on reconnecting with others and engaging in meaningful activities. By letting go of the victim identity, individuals gain self-awareness, break unhealthy patterns, and live authentically in alignment with core values. Developing Authority is an interpersonal skill so you can live within your values and strengths.
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